Being A Gentleman: Nice Guys Finish Last
There is a fine line between being a Gentleman and a nice guy. Lets start with being a nice guy.
A young male who will give up countless hours of his time listening to the problems of his very attractive female friends because they need someone to talk to about their apathetic, Baywatch jock of a boyfriend because no one else will listen or genuinely care. Although always surrounded by beautiful girls the nice guy can’t get a girlfriend or even facilitate the alleviation of certain “drives” because his “ordinary” physical appearance will forever be compared to the Baywatch beach bum’s. The nice guy would never capitalize on a vulnerable girl, objectify or cheat on a girl, he will go out of his way and bend over backwards to help his “friends” and will never ask for anything in return but no matter how intelligent, understanding, humorous, compassionate, trusting or loyal the nice guy is the female cohort will always pass him up and endure any length of abuse, objectification, apathy and cold-heartedness from a man if he has physical attractiveness, fashion, big muscles and chiseled facial features.
Now the only problem with being a “Nice Guy” is his huevos. He is just too nice and will not take initiative, that is not gentleman-like at all. To all the nice guys out there, I respect your kindness and such, however, I do not respect how you treat women after they say no or already have a boyfriend because your “kind” (whimpy) ass won’t kiss the damn girl. If she has a boyfriend, why are you even here. Don’t be a home wrecker. Here are you going to go around her back trash talking or saying she’s a slut because you are not romantically capable?
Now look, we all make mistakes. I have done this countless of times, that’s why I am writing this article now. Just man up and do the work. If you like the girl, court her. If she shows interest, kiss her. If she likes it wunderbar, if not be friends or just ease the awkwardness. Don’t go talking smack about her.
Kiss the girl, dammit.
Que no pase del fin !